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MarketingOctober 7, 20258 min read

Push vs. Pull: Stop Renting Attention, Start Earning It

Every year, brands spend millions on Super Bowl ads trying to make people care for 30 seconds. One approach rents attention. The other earns it.

Every year, brands spend millions on Super Bowl ads trying to make people care about their product for 30 seconds. Then they wonder why it doesn't move the needle long-term.

Meanwhile, other brands are quietly building audiences by consistently showing up with content people actually want. No fireworks. No celebrity cameos. Just useful service delivered when people need it.

One approach rents attention. The other earns it. Most brands feel safe with the first when they should be investing in the second.

The Renting Problem

Push marketing is simple: interrupt people who aren't thinking about you and force your message in front of them. Buy the biggest stage. Make the loudest noise. Hope something sticks.

Super Bowl ads are the ultimate example. Brands spend $7 million for 30 seconds of rented attention from people who are there to watch football, not think about insurance or beer or trucks.

Sometimes it works. You get buzz. You trend on social media for a day. Maybe you win an award.

But here's what usually happens: the buzz fades, the trend dies, and you're back to renting attention all over again. Because you didn't build anything. You just leased space in people's minds for a moment.

Think about what you own versus what you rent. When you rent an apartment, every month you pay but you build no equity. When you own a home, every payment builds value that compounds over time.

Push marketing is renting. Every campaign requires a new budget. Every attention spike requires a new buy. Stop spending and the attention stops immediately. You're perpetually paying for the same audience over and over.

Push marketing treats audiences like targets to be captured. It's inherently transactional. Give us your attention, and maybe you'll remember our brand when you need what we sell.

The Service Advantage

Pull marketing works differently. Instead of interrupting people, you serve them with something they actually want. Content they search for. Insights they share. Tools they use. Information that solves problems they already have.

You're not forcing your way into their awareness. You're earning your way in by being useful. By serving first.

The best part? Service-based marketing compounds. Every useful piece of content continues working long after you publish it. People find it through search, share it with colleagues, bookmark it for later. It becomes an asset you own, not attention you rent.

When someone discovers your brand because you answered their question or solved their problem, they show up different. They're not annoyed by the interruption. They're grateful for the help. That's the difference between renting a moment and earning trust.

The New Currency: Citations and Mentions

Here's something critical that most brands are missing: we're entering a zero-click world.

When someone asks ChatGPT, Perplexity, or Gemini a question, they often get their answer without ever clicking through to a website. The AI platforms provide direct answers, synthesized from multiple sources. This fundamentally changes how people discover brands.

Traditional SEO was about ranking first on Google so people would click through to your site. The new standard is being cited and mentioned by AI platforms as an authoritative source.

Service-based marketing is perfectly optimized for this shift. When AI platforms look for content to cite and recommend, they prioritize useful, authoritative content that actually answers questions. Content that serves a real need. Content that demonstrates expertise through helping, not selling.

Every piece of service content you create becomes potential citation material. When you answer real questions thoroughly, when you share genuine expertise freely, when you document your process transparently, you're building the kind of authority that AI platforms recognize and reference.

This compounds differently than traditional SEO. It's not just your content that helps you. When others mention your brand, cite your insights, or reference your expertise across the web, that builds your citation profile. AI platforms learn that you're an authority worth mentioning when people ask questions in your domain.

Push marketing gets you a moment of attention. Service-based marketing gets you mentioned and cited across AI platforms. One disappears immediately. The other builds lasting authority in how people discover information, and it pays dividends in both SEO and AIO.

Why Brands Keep Renting

If service-based pull marketing is so effective, why do brands keep throwing money at renting attention?

Because renting is easier to explain to executives. You can point to impressions, reach, and frequency. You can say "10 million people saw our ad." That's simple math.

Building equity through service is harder to quantify upfront. How do you predict the value of creating useful content consistently over time? How do you measure trust building? How do you put a number on being the brand someone thinks of first because you've been helpful for months?

Renting also feels more exciting. There's something seductive about the big swing, the viral moment, the campaign everyone talks about. Service feels boring by comparison. Just show up and be useful? Where's the creativity in that?

But here's what renting actually costs: you never stop paying. Every quarter requires a new budget for the same audience. You're on a treadmill that never ends.

What Service Actually Looks Like

Service-based marketing isn't just blogging or posting on social media. It's any content that genuinely helps someone do their job better or solve a real problem.

At Forge, we see service marketing work when brands:

Answer real questions: Not the questions you wish people were asking, but the ones they're actually searching for. Do the research. Find the gaps. Serve the need.

Share genuine expertise: You know things your audience doesn't. Things that would help them if they knew. Stop hoarding that knowledge behind sales conversations. Serve it up freely.

Build useful tools: Calculators, templates, frameworks. Things people can actually use. Make their jobs easier and they'll remember you when they need what you sell. That's service.

Document your process: Show how things work. Pull back the curtain. The behind-the-scenes stuff is often more valuable than the polished final product. Serve the insight, not just the outcome.

Solve adjacent problems: You can't always directly sell what you do. But you can help people with related challenges. That builds trust and positions you as someone who serves first, sells second.

Equity That Compounds

The difference between renting attention and earning it is obvious when you look at what happens over time.

Rented attention is designed to spike. Big launch, big budget, big attention, fast decline. It's meant to hit hard once, not build equity. Stop paying and it stops working immediately.

Owned attention through service is designed to compound. It might start slow, but it keeps working. Someone finds it through search six months later. It gets shared in a Slack channel. It becomes the thing people bookmark and send to colleagues. It builds value you actually own.

This is why we focus on creating content that serves long-term, not just spikes short-term. Not just what's trending this week, but what people will still find useful next year. That's how you build equity instead of just renting moments.

Measuring What Matters

Rented attention is easy to measure in the moment. Views, impressions, reach. All surface-level metrics that disappear as soon as you stop paying.

Service-based marketing requires different measurement. You're tracking things like:

Time on site: Are people actually consuming the content or just bouncing?

Return visitors: Are they coming back because what you created was genuinely useful?

Content depth: Are they reading multiple pieces or just one?

Conversion quality: When service content brings people in, do they convert better than rented traffic?

Share rate: Are people sending this to others without you asking?

These metrics tell you if you're building equity or just creating more noise.

Build Equity, Not Moments

Creative should solve, not just impress. That applies to marketing strategy too.

Before you plan the next big campaign that rents a moment, ask what your audience actually needs from you. What questions do they have that you can answer? What problems do they face that you can help solve? What would make their jobs easier?

Then serve that. Consistently. Over time.

This requires patience. Service-based marketing doesn't deliver instant results. You're building an asset that compounds over months and years, not a campaign that spikes and fades in days.

But here's what makes it worth it: once you build that foundation, it keeps working without constant payment. Your useful content keeps attracting people. Your authority keeps opening doors. Your community keeps growing. That's equity you own.

Rented attention stops working the second you stop paying for it. Service-based marketing keeps working long after you publish it. One is an expense. The other is an investment.

Results with heart. That's not just about execution. It's about intention. Are you trying to serve or trying to be seen? Are you building equity or just renting moments?

The best marketing doesn't feel like marketing at all. It just feels helpful.


What brands do you think balance renting and owning well? I'm curious which companies are building real equity through service while using rented attention strategically.